kassandra

What makes you feel sexy and confident? Being present. And being watched. Entering a room, feeling heads turn and eyes gaze. From time to time, I like to be the center of attention - and to play with the power that comes with it.

When I’m by myself I like to put on some music and dance in front of the mirror in my lingerie, slowly taking it off piece by piece ...

What’s the sexiest compliment someone has ever given you? You inspire me.

What do you enjoy doing when you're not working? I do Burlesque as a hobby and I spend a lot of time working on costumes and performances. I also love to dance and I am a social person, so I enjoy going out and discover new places or parties. I am very interested in kink and BDSM and I regularly take workshops to educate myself both practically and theoretically.

How did you discover your passion for companionship and kink? I’ve always been curious and sensation-seeking. I am also very playful, sexual and imaginative. So kink and BDSM came into my life very naturally.
I have been in the kink and BDSM scene for about seven years. For me, it has become a way to experience things I usually just dare to imagine. I find it deeply fulfilling to introduce people to this world, share my knowledge and to help make their wildest dreams come true.

What’s something about you that might surprise people? I’m a real Berliner, born and raised.

What are your favorite kinks or fetishes to explore? My biggest kink is elaborate roleplay. I develop backstories for my characters, choose fitting costumes and settings, and even in public, I’m very comfortable staying in character.

When I’m dominating, I like to really get into your head and find out what makes you tick. I enjoy seeing you beg and quiver before me. Verbal degradation mixed with some good, dirty talk is something I love to use—but if you need to be put in your place, I’ll gladly use my flogger to do it.

How do you like to establish a deep, kinky connection with a client? 

It’s important to me to communicate on an eye-to-eye level before engaging in play. I like to have an open conversation about passions, fantasies, and expectations, so I can truly understand your desires and what you're looking for in our encounter.
I’m very open and empathetic, and I consider it a great privilege when someone feels comfortable enough to open up to me. I also enjoy sharing my own experiences and thoughts about kink, so we can build mutual trust and connection. 

During a session, I’m highly attentive to your body language. We’ll agree on a safeword, and I’ll also check in with you directly if there’s any uncertainty. What’s most important to me is creating a safe space where you feel comfortable opening up and being your true self.

Are there any specific roles or dynamics you particularly enjoy?I am dominant.When it comes to roleplay, I enjoy versatility. The fun is in exploring different roles and settings.

What kind of sessions do you love the most and why? 

I don’t just plan a session - I create experiences. I love sessions that give me creative freedom and offer psychological depth. The most fulfilling sessions are those where we both genuinely enjoy the experience. For me, that means understanding what you’re looking for, so I can then decide how to guide you there.

I also truly relish the opportunity to introduce someone to kink or to help them explore their fantasies.

In a session, I love to see you submit and offer yourself fully to me. It turns me on to be in that position of power. While I take pleasure in impact play, I find the psychological dimension of a power exchange even more fascinating. When I reach the point where I truly see you, and you can fully let go, that’s where the magic happens.

Do you have a signature move, skill, or experience you’re known for? I am very good with words, which makes me excellent at dirty talk and roleplay.

How would you describe the experience of being with you? Depending on what we do it can be very different. If we go out to an event or party it can be very thrilling, but also playful, fun and flirty. Maybe we are getting sexy and sweaty on the dancefloor or we retreat to one of the backrooms and you get a little public spanking?
If we meet for a proper BDSM session it will be an intense but gratifying experience. I am always empathetic, attentive and sensual, but in play, I will be strict or even cruel, when I see, that this is what you desire.

What kind of clients do you enjoy spending time with the most? I like clients who are curious and open to explore.

Do you prefer slow seduction, intense passion, playful teasing, or something else? I can be very seductive and playful and I like to build up tension slowly, leaving room for your imagination of what’s to come ...

How do you make someone feel comfortable exploring their desires with you? Through communication, compassion, an open mind and absolutely no judgement.

What’s your idea of the perfect kinky adventure? Realizing a roleplay fantasy. Whether you’ve dreamed of being seduced by a sensual spy, having a private tutoring lesson with your strict teacher or finally reuniting with your mean step-sister, you always had naughty thoughts about - I am very excited to make your dreams come true.

How do you ensure both you and your clients feel safe and respected? I communicate clearly and always ask when I’m unsure about something. I respect your boundaries and limits as much as my own. With several years of experience in kink and BDSM, I only engage in practices I know I can provide safely. I regularly attend workshops to continue educating myself, ensuring I stay at the top of my game.

Do you have any specific aftercare rituals you enjoy? Lying in bed, cuddling, snacking and reminiscing about the incredible experience we just shared.

What’s the best way for a client to approach a session with you? Sent an inquiry and explain why you are specifically interested in meeting me and what it is you are looking for. You should always be polite and respectful. I will not answer requests that are rude or ignorant.

What are your preferred ways of being spoiled or appreciated? I always enjoy a nice massage. In general, I prefer experiences over material things, so an exclusive dinner, a spa day, or a city trip to see a certain exhibition or play will make me very happy. However, I’m quite selective about the material things I like, so if you’d like to get me an actual gift, either put a lot of thought into it or take me shopping with you.

If you were a cocktail, what would you be and why? I would be a Whiskey Sour. A well-rounded combination of taste, a great companion for every occasion, elegant and delicious.

What’s your favorite piece of lingerie or fetish wear? I love wearing my black and rosé Fleur du Mal lingerie set with stockings and my leather boots.

Do you have a special talent or hidden skill? I do Burlesque, so I am very aware of how to use my body to tease and seduce.

If you could plan the ultimate kinky fantasy session, what would it involve? I would create my own Eyes Wide Shut fantasy. Renting a mansion in the countryside and hiring servants, actors, sex workers, and artists as performers to interact with the guests. You would receive a written invitation with clues that you must solve to find out where you’re going. The adventure begins long before you even get to the location, taking you to a bar, a tailor, and a costume rental.

Once you arrive at the mansion, you’ll knock on the door and be asked for the password. Hopefully, you’ll know it—or find another way to sneak in. If you do, you’ll be welcomed by the master of ceremony. There will be an initiation ritual. The atmosphere is mysterious, almost a little scary. You won’t know what the evening will bring, but there will be beautiful people around you, some naked, some in costume, but all masked—indulging in all the pleasures life has to offer.

You’ll be approached by other guests, some will start conversations, offer things to you, ask for favors, give you mysterious hints, or try to push you out of your comfort zone. After a while, you won’t know who’s an actor, who’s a guest, what’s play, or what’s reality. And it won’t matter anymore once you surrender to the situation and let go of yourself.